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| Things to Think Over |  Abortion is the Losing Proposition.
-The baby loses its life through a terrible death.
-You lose a huge part of your physical and mental health because of a big risk of possible complications. You lose your calmness knowing for the rest of your life, that you killed your own baby.
This is not an unwanted baby.
Perhaps it is unwanted just by you, it can be so. Probably it is not the appropriate time in your life to bring up a child.
Do not Feel Upset, You may:
-be a single mother
-not be mentally prepared to bring up this child
-be married and not want to have another child
-have not enough money for raising this child
-continue your studies at school or university
-have some other major responsibilities
- be a minor living with your parents
-know that your unborn child has physical or other problems
-or have other individual reasons.
Think Over This: there are 200,000 couples that extremely do want your baby! Besides, there are only 25,000 babies to adopt each year. Why not change this unsuccessful situation and make it a victorious one? Women who make adoption plans are really very courage, every can say that they are heroes. Actually, they may be among the most heroic people in our society. Just few people place their own needs so far behind of the needs of others. Some birth mothers make the adoption plans for their children, because they love their babies and want to arrange more than she herself can arrange. It occurs not because they are bad persons and worthless parents, far from it. Actually, they realize that their financial impossibility or some other problems will not allow them to bring up their own children. That is why these women make the most difficult decision in their lives; they allow other people to raise their children, to love their children, to be with their children in every important moment of their developing and upbringing, and simply to enjoy life. Because of this, women who choose the adoption plans to their children should be seen as the most courageous, unselfish, loving person. They put the needs of their children overhead of their psychological and emotional health. They want the best life for their children, at least better than they can provide themselves. By the way, they give an opportunity for some barren couples to have a child about which they could only dream.
Women, who make the adoption plans for their children must be given warm encouragement, pure love, and considerable assistance. These women display the heroic efforts and kindness, so they must be acknowledged because of all these.
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